Our Son, Our Gift

(Read by Dad at the Vigil service for Mark on 7/5/99)

Despite the sadness that Janis and I have felt, for the loss of the son we dreamed of having, it's been very easy for us to focus on the special gifts that Mark brought us. And while they may not be tangible gifts to hold in our hands, they are personal and spiritual gifts that we'll hold in our hearts and minds forever.

I wrote a poem for Mark reflecting on this. It's titled "Our Son, Our Gift"

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We brought you into this world, Mark
Yet it is you who gives us new life

We took care of your needs
Yet it is you who nurtures us every day

We fed you
Yet it is you who nourishes our spirit

We bathed you
Yet it is you who cleanses us with your innocence

We talked to you
Yet it is you who shares the good news

We read to you
Yet it is you who teaches us many things

We sang to you
Yet it is you who brings us harmony

We showed you off
Yet it is you who makes us shine

We held you
Yet it is you who carried us through with your strength

We rocked you
Yet it is you who comforts us

We played with you
Yet it is you who shows us good times

We lay you down to rest
Yet it is you who brings us peace

We prayed with you
Yet it is you who brings us closer to the Lord

Thank you for being our son, Mark
Thank you for being our Gift

We love you forever.

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